Why So Many Realtors® Quit - And How to Survive, Grow, and Thrive in Your First 5 Years

Overcoming the Odds: How Smart Strategies Can Help Realtors® Build a Lasting, Thriving Career

 
Green road sign showing "Success" pointing left and "Failure" pointing right under a cloudy sky.

Success in real estate isn’t just about drive—it’s about structure, strategy, and consistent support.

 

Real estate offers tremendous opportunity—but it also has one of the highest early failure rates in any industry. Many talented Realtors® enter the field full of excitement, only to find themselves overwhelmed, underprepared, and burned out within a few short years. If you want to build a sustainable, successful real estate career, it’s critical to understand why so many quit—and what the survivors do differently.

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How Many Realtors® Quit Within the First 5 Years?

According to industry estimates:

  • Up to 75% of new Realtors® quit within their first year

  • Over 85% leave the business within five years

These numbers highlight just how challenging real estate can be—but they also reveal an opportunity. If you prepare, structure, and market yourself properly, you immediately set yourself apart from the majority.

Top Reasons Realtors® Quit the Business

Success in real estate isn’t about luck. It's about building systems, staying consistent, and investing in your growth from the beginning.

1. Lack of Leads and Income Stability

Why It Happens:

  • New agents underestimate how long it takes to generate consistent business

  • They lack a reliable lead generation strategy

  • Inconsistent income leads to early burnout

Solution:

  • Focus heavily on building your Sphere of Influence (SOI) from day one

  • Invest in multi-channel marketing support to keep your brand visible

  • Set realistic financial expectations and budgets for the first 6-12 months

2. Marketing Inconsistency and Overwhelm

Why It Happens:

  • DIY marketing is time-consuming and often ineffective

  • Agents bounce between random tactics without a clear strategy

  • Marketing feels overwhelming without templates, systems, or support

Solution:

  • Partner with professional marketing services (like AmericasBestMarketing.com)

  • Set a content calendar for social media, email, and direct mail

  • Focus on consistency over perfection

3. Lack of a Clear Business Plan

Why It Happens:

  • New agents often "wing it" instead of working from a real plan

  • No roadmap means lost time, missed goals, and frustration

Solution:

  • Create a business plan with income goals, activities targets, and lead source focus

  • Track your numbers weekly and adjust as needed

4. Isolation and Lack of Accountability

Why It Happens:

  • Real estate can feel lonely and competitive

  • Without mentors, coaching, or community, it’s easy to stall out

Solution:

  • Join a coaching or accountability program

  • Network with other professionals and build referral relationships

5. Mindset and Expectation Misalignment

Why It Happens:

  • Many agents expect fast money with minimal effort

  • Reality: Success requires hard work, patience, and skill-building

Solution:

  • Adjust expectations early

  • Celebrate small wins

  • View real estate as a career, not a short-term hustle

What Top Agents Do Differently to Survive and Thrive

The top 10% of agents didn’t get there by accident. They built solid habits, leveraged expert support, and stayed relentlessly consistent.

1. They Focus on Brand Visibility and Consistency

Pro Tips:

  • Build a professional brand image from day one

  • Be everywhere: social media, direct mail, email, events

  • Reinforce your brand with every touchpoint

2. They Invest in Coaching, Training, and Support

Pro Tips:

  • Get guidance from those who’ve already succeeded

  • Join structured programs that provide accountability

  • Stay in learning mode, always improving your skills

3. They Build Systems for SOI Engagement

Pro Tips:

  • Use a CRM to manage outreach and follow-up

  • Send regular value-driven communications to your database

  • Prioritize relationship-building over cold selling

4. They Set Goals and Track Progress

Pro Tips:

  • Set monthly goals for contacts made, appointments set, and deals closed

  • Review your numbers weekly and adjust your actions accordingly

5. They Delegate Marketing and Admin Work

Pro Tips:

  • Focus your time on income-producing activities

  • Outsource design, posting, mailing, and copywriting to marketing pros

  • Work smarter, not harder

How to Survive Your First Year as a Realtor®

Your first year is critical. It’s when habits are formed, reputations are built, and foundations are laid.

Start with a Business and Marketing Plan

Checklist:

  • Income goal

  • Weekly activities targets

  • Lead source focus (SOI, farming, digital, etc.)

  • Monthly marketing calendar

Focus on Building Your SOI

Checklist:

  • Announce your business to everyone you know

  • Stay in touch through social media, email, mailers, and personal check-ins

  • Track all conversations and referrals

Use Multi-Channel Marketing Immediately

Checklist:

Join a Coaching Program

Checklist:

Invest in Professional Branding

Checklist:

  • Hire professional designers for logos, templates, and mailers

  • Maintain a cohesive brand on social media, your website, and print

How to Grow and Thrive After Year One

Passing Year One is just the start. Thriving long-term requires continual improvement and adaptation.

Refine Your Niche or Geographic Focus

Checklist:

  • Identify your favorite client type or farm area

  • Position yourself as the expert in that niche

Leverage Referrals and Repeat Business

Checklist:

  • Deliver 5-star service to every client

  • Implement automated post-closing follow-up systems

  • Ask for referrals directly (but politely)

Scale with Systems and Support

Checklist:

  • Automate CRM, marketing, and follow-up wherever possible

  • Hire transaction coordinators, VAs, or team members as needed

Keep Learning and Sharpening Your Skills

Checklist:

  • Stay updated on market trends, legal changes, and technology tools

  • Invest in personal development, leadership training, and marketing skills


What Successful Realtors® Are Reading


FAQs: Real Estate Agent Attrition and Long-Term Success

Q: Why do so many Realtors® fail within their first year?

Most underestimate how much structured effort it takes to build a reliable pipeline of clients. They lack systems, consistent marketing, and support.

Q: Is real estate harder than people expect?

Yes. While flexible, real estate demands continuous lead generation, marketing, skill development, and self-discipline.

Q: How can I avoid becoming a statistic?

Start with a plan, market yourself consistently, engage your SOI daily, and surround yourself with strategic support and coaching.

Q: What services make the biggest difference early on?

Multi-channel marketing support (social, direct mail, email), branding assistance, CRM setup, and professional coaching.

Q: Is marketing really that important in the first year?

Absolutely. Visibility, credibility, and consistency are the three keys to building trust—and marketing is how you deliver all three.

There’s No Better Time to Start Growing Your Business Than Right Now. Let’s Get Started Today!

At AmericasBestMarketing.com, we help new Realtors® launch strong, build momentum, and grow year after year with:

  • Branded social media marketing

  • Direct mail campaigns

  • Email marketing and newsletters

  • IDX websites and digital retargeting

  • Coaching and accountability

With no long-term contracts and full-service support, we make it easy to stay consistent, stay visible, and stay growing.

 

Discover our comprehensive Multi-Channel Marketing Program tailored for Realtor® success! In this video, we’ll walk you through our strategic approach that blends social media, listing marketing, IDX interactive websites, digital advertising, direct mail, and more.

 
 

Reaching the next level in your business can be challenging without the right support. Success often requires collaboration, guidance, and a strategic approach. Don’t go it alone—partner with experts who can help you achieve your goals.

 


Shad Rockstad

Shad Rockstad brings over 25 years of leadership in business development, marketing, recruiting, and customer service to his clients. Beyond his years of coaching real estate professionals and business owners, he has held executive roles in printing and manufacturing firms, and founded, built, and sold retail and transportation services companies.

Shad and his team enjoy helping clients distinguish themselves from their competition by establishing success-driven routines and habits, and by applying proven business and marketing fundamentals. It is most fulfilling when clients achieve their personal and business growth objectives, from small day-to-day wins to major lifetime dreams.

https://www.americasbestcoaching.com/
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